Cocktail Hour
The Red Room · First Floor
Doors open at five. Find the Red Room, find a drink, find someone you haven't seen in years.
One evening, six acts
Everything happens under one roof at The Toledo Club. Here's how the evening moves.
The Red Room · First Floor
Doors open at five. Find the Red Room, find a drink, find someone you haven't seen in years.
Main Dining Room · Third Floor
Seated dinner upstairs, under the chandeliers. You pick your entrée when you RSVP.
Main Dining Room · Third Floor
Cake comes out. Grab a plate and find your people before the floor opens.
Main Dining Room · Third Floor
The floor opens and it does not close. Justin will already be on it.
Main Dining Room · Third Floor
You'll be hungry again after all that dancing. We promise it will be good.
The Toledo Club
Last song, last drink, coats from the check. Then the shuttle heads to Downtown Johnny's for the after party. Tick the box on your RSVP so we can count heads.
The Red Room, five o'clock
Two cocktails, chosen by us. Order one of ours or whatever you like. It's an open bar.
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The Venue
A private club since 1889, with the marble, oak, and chandeliers to prove it. Park in the club's own lot, start with cocktails in the Red Room on the first floor, then head upstairs to the Main Dining Room. Follow the crowd, and the noise.
Address
Toledo, OH 43604
Parking & Shuttle
The Toledo Club has its own lot. A shuttle will also run between the hotels and the club before the reception, and from the club to the after party and back to the hotels afterward. Check back closer to the event for times.
Non-negotiable, lovingly
Tuxedos, dinner jackets, dark suits. Floor-length or elegant cocktail. It's January in Ohio, so bring the good coat. There's a coat check.
Do
Black tie, dark suits, gowns, velvet, sequins, a truly excellent shoe. The Toledo Club has never once been underdressed. Neither should you.
Maybe don't
Dark and boring is allowed. Dark and interesting is better. Velvet, sequins, a bold shoe. This room can take it.
Encouraged
You're absolutely allowed to match the wedding. In fact, please do. There will be photographs.
The Toledo Club's own house rule, which we're passing along word for word: proper business attire (collared shirt, pressed pants) is required inside the banquet rooms. No shorts, T-shirts, athletic apparel, ball caps, or denim are permitted in event rooms of The Toledo Club.
Stay downtown, cab home
All of these are a short ride from the club. Book early, and mention the wedding if a block is listed.
Room block · Recommended
444 N Summit St. The grand one: rooftop bar, big rooms, and where most of the out-of-towners will land. Ask for the Carder/Morris wedding block when you book.
Reliable
101 N Summit St. Clean, modern, river views, and a short ride to the club.
Suites & kitchens
101 N Summit St. Suites with kitchens, same building as the Hilton Garden Inn. Good for a weekend, not just a night.
Staying together
Airbnbs and lofts downtown, good for larger groups who want to stay under one roof with a kitchen and a couch.
Getting around
The club has its own private lot. A shuttle will run from the hotels to the club before the reception, then club to after party to hotels at the end of the night. Check back closer to the event for times. Uber and Lyft run downtown all night too.
Flying in
Detroit Metro (DTW) is about an hour away and has everything. It's the one to book.
The reason you're here
Short version: we met, we stayed. Come drink to it.









Prove you know us
Six questions. The winner gets bragging rights and a seat at dinner. So does the loser, but still.
Final score
0/6
11pm until they kick us out
513 Jefferson Ave, across from the Huntington Center and a short shuttle ride from the club. They've got a TouchTunes jukebox, which means the playlist is your problem now. Tick the after-party box on your RSVP so we know how many are coming. If you'd rather be asleep, we understand, and we're judging you gently.
By December 1, 2026
You're already through the door. Just tell us who's coming.
Your invitation
You have reserved
Received
Ask before you text us
Five o'clock. Dinner is seated at six upstairs, so if you're running late, aim to be in your chair by 5:50.
The wedding is. Cocktails in the Red Room on the first floor, then dinner, dessert, dancing, and late night bites in the Main Dining Room on the third floor. The reception wraps at 11, and the after party moves to Downtown Johnny's on Jefferson Ave. The shuttle goes there too.
Your code knows exactly how many seats are yours, and it'll show them when you unlock the RSVP. If we got it wrong, say so in the notes and we'll fix it.
Named guests only, and every name is listed on your RSVP. It's a late night in a private club, so most families are treating this as a night off.
The Toledo Club has private parking on site. A shuttle will also run before and after: hotels to the club, then club to the after party and back to the hotels. Check back closer to the event for times. Uber and Lyft run downtown all night if you'd rather not drive.
No registry. Our cabinets are full. There'll be a card box at the reception and an open bar, and we'd rather you spend your energy on the bar.
There is. Type TG1P2027 anywhere on this page, not in a box, just on the page, and see what happens. Turn your sound up first.
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It's Toledo in January. Assume cold, possibly snow, definitely a coat. Coat check is right inside the door.